BusySmartyPants

i go on i rock on

2012-01-25T18:43:00.000-08:00

Man, life has been lobbing lemons my way. I mean it. L-E-M-O-N-S. A cornucopia of them. A festering nest of squeeze-resistant lemons.
Okay, maybe I exaggerate. But, bottom line it's been a hard couple of weeks and I've puzzled over what to do about it.
How much of this was self-inflicted? Am I really so stupid? Why so much rejection right now?
My shrink was no help. I've never seen you this sad, he said, adding in all seriousness, When can you leave the country?
So, I thought a lot. Then tried not to think. Talked, and then stopped talking.
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But gradually, the fog lifted a little and I looked around.
There was motivational graffiti in an alley: grow past your misery.
A yoga instructor, talking nakedly about acceptance instead of struggle.
I listen to Zion I ("Coasting") and ask myself if I can yield a little, and live in peace.

move

2012-01-14T19:00:00.000-08:00

Today's soundtrack, new (to me): The Coup

Try and not move to these beats.

ebb n flow

2012-01-08T14:25:00.000-08:00

While Ebb and Flow is the maker of one of my favorite gins, it also seems to be the situation around here. I've been trying my hardest to figure it out.

Several good friends have disappeared into relationships. Is there a term for this? I understand it, sort of, but it also makes me feel like the temporary friend, the placeholder until someone else comes along. Irrational? Or c'est vrai?

Then there are the long-time pals who are suddenly super busy, or who make plans and then cancel them. Those who won't make plans and then call up last minute. I wonder what has happened. Or if it's just life's rhythms.

We are all alone, yes yes I know. But friendship makes the alone-ness a lot more bearable.

Maybe I need to stop trying. For awhile, anyway.

The thing, I think now, is just to wait and see.

when

2012-01-05T20:54:00.000-08:00

when do you yield and when do you press?

this is the question, and as to the answer, I do not know.

after this long on the planet, I thought I might have a clew.

o hai

2012-01-01T15:02:00.000-08:00

Last week I re-read a journal I kept during the year before my divorce.

Damn those were tumultuous times. I moved out of my old house, then back in; went to one shrink, another, and another.

The only constant was how shitty I felt most of the time, and the certainty that I needed to be doing certain things.

Writing.

Taking pictures.

Finding a network of creative people.

Traveling more.

Chilling out.

Well whaddya know I've been doing most of the above.

But I've been thinking some more. Back in the day I filled sketchbooks with images ripped out of magazines, quotations, all the little bits that made up my life: Benetton ads, my own drawings, Christian Lacroix pearl-encrusted crosses, ESPRIT shoes, Len Deighton. A me-book. Today, armed with tape and pages torn from Citizen K, I started a new me-book.

O hai, 2012

beats

2011-12-28T17:33:00.000-08:00

Some fresh beats have come to my attention lately.

Kum Curek's blog features cuts so now they're actually tomorrow.

And check out Audiojack, these cats are amazing:
Latest tracks by Audiojack Official

four letter word or, do you believe?

2011-12-24T15:54:00.000-08:00

Do you believe in love?

I'm still not sure that I do. Maybe. Possibly. I'm on the fence. I want to. It's scary. It feels so good and then it hurts, like the sweet bliss of nitrous right before the root canal drill.

An Ethiopian friend says he doesn't. But, he's young and a player so I think it's mostly a line.

Also, it depends somewhat on what you mean by love. There's "love" as in soul mates, one person you'll be with forever and do everything with and skip happily into the Hollywood sunset.

There's also "love" as in:

the friend who says "call anytime day or night if you need anything" and when something horrible happens, she picks up the phone at 1 a.m.
the one who remembers to check in on holidays or certain times a year because they know you lost somebody and are feeling sad
sisters and nieces who are nutty and fun and would be friends even if they weren't blood relations
people who take adventures with you, whether it's a late night photo shoot in a downtown alley or sidewalk dancing and then Five Point tater tots at 4am or checking out a young hip hop band that's so terrible that fleeing out to the sidewalk in the 20-degree night with no coat is preferable
the dreamers, the poets and musicians and artists and photographers, who gladly stay up all night with you smoking and drinking and agonizing over strokes and beats and beauty and yet somehow also surf the mundanity of day jobs, of rent checks and power bills
the handsome charming one who tells you everything, holds back nothing even when it's ugly or painful or sad, and couldn't be lovelier

PS: I saw this graffiti: I know your secrets and I love you anyway

tribe

2011-12-22T17:21:00.001-08:00

On the longest night of the year, some classic Tribe Called Quest to make you smile:

the thing about it is

2011-12-19T23:28:00.000-08:00

The thing about it is, it won't kill you.
Loneliness.
YES! this is one of those posts. I wish it wasn't. It is though. I feel like I have to write these things, because I feel them.
I feel it. It.
Like a stab, like a lot of stabs, the kind of deep anxious dreadful jabbing stab that makes you want to hurt yourself so you feel something else besides it. It.
Loneliness. Yeah.
It makes you wish you were dead, sometimes, or at least that your nerves were dead, so you didn't feel so damn awful much.
It's a space that needs filling, with gin or sex or hip hop or frenzied running around. It hits you that it's been yea long since someone, anyone, a stranger even, held you, hugged you, really grabbed on, and meant it.
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It won't kill you though, loneliness. You'll live through it. You'll live to be lonely another day.
I imagine it away sometimes, like turning off an old television set, a bright digital flash consolidating in on itself like a collapsing star.

good stuff

2011-12-15T18:43:00.000-08:00

From BusySmartyPants to you, some pages where I've been hanging out lately:

Yeti vs Penguin -- super simple but so addictive
Like to read? I mean, do you like to read a lot? kottke.org and longform
Best 404 page ever
Why does life suck so much? or not? ty Rob Brezsny
Aaaaand, because my iPhone wrote "pass" instead of "pasa" 3 times in a row today (ffs, honestly), don't forget this one.

Happy Thursday, y'all.

what Africa sounds like

2011-12-11T16:38:00.000-08:00

One thing I love about Afrika ya Mashariki is the constant buzz of activity. Everything has a soundtrack, whether it's music, conversation, dogs fighting, horns tooting, football on the television, a generator. That said, peep this short recording of a peaceful moment outside the Nam Hotel in Dodoma; the damn rooster was my wake up call every morning at 4.10.

outside the nam by busysmartypants

so this one

2011-12-10T11:17:00.000-08:00

This picture is from late 2009.
I look dull, no?
Frustrated.
Lonely.

It was the beginning of seismic changes, of BusySmartyPants and solo days and nights, of gutting out stories and thinking too much about not thinking so much.
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A photographer friend snapped my picture last night. She has an eye, let me tell you. This is so you, she said, showing me me, looking candid and direct.
This girl wouldn't know that one, I don't think.

sweet beats

2011-12-06T18:55:00.000-08:00

Peep my friend thad wenatchee's new music video, made with love right in the 206:

yummy tummy time

2011-12-03T17:08:00.000-08:00

Boy, it's been heavy around here. I heard three people utter the words "I'm lonely" this week.
One of those people was me.
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In other news, I saw an amazing dance performance last night by zoe|juniper. Dancers in gold headgear, robotic and lithe, stunning. Two were naked, and barking. Another bit a scarlet leash.
While in Addis, I polished off an entire box of off-brand cocoa krispies. Nothing says yummy tummy time like chocolate cereal with hot milk.
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Today's soundtrack, a BSP video, the view from a Tanzanian teksi:

if only

2011-12-01T20:01:00.000-08:00

The shoe repair guy said, wistfully, No one ever brings me clean shoes.
I handed over mud-crusted boots that needed re-heeling and felt like a shit.
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I love travel. The more places I go, the more I feel alive, connected, humble, curious, ignorant, desperate, hopeful, optimistic, realistic, fatalistic.
I hate travel. The more I go, the less I feel like staying.
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One day I shoveled sand in a rocky Addis Ababa alley and sang Gershwin to a little girl who giggled and held my work-gloved hand. A passerby kissed my cheek and said she felt as though she were my sister, and I felt like the luckiest person alive.
And now I feel more deeply lonely than ever. I thought it was supposed to be the opposite.
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For 6 Birr (35 cents), a shoeshine kid scrubbed my muddy kicks with soap and water. He didn't complain about dirty shoes. But, sitting there while he labored with a dirty rag and scraps of soap, I still felt like a shit.

the fit

2011-11-28T18:19:00.001-08:00

When you go on a long trip, people say, "have fun, take lots of pictures."
I'm a pretty good traveler but a terrible picture taker. I didn't even take a camera this last time, just a phone with an okay camera. I did make some cool videos though, and some recordings.
So, we'll see.

afrika ya mashariki 2011

The more I travel, the less I feel like I belong anywhere. When I'm home, I'm thinking about there, and when I'm there, I'm so clearly an outsider, not at home, a mzungu, a faranji. Do I need to fit in? Or do I just need to be content when I've found my people, whether that's in Seattle or Dar es Salaam?
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Anyway, here are the pictures I did manage to take, seventy-six seconds out of three million or so.

selam ana fiqir

2011-11-21T19:15:00.000-08:00

Five weeks away, and I'm still not sure where my heart (home) is.
These things take sorting out.
In the meantime check out an Addis Ababa cloudburst: brief, torrential, noisy, punishing, cleansing, chaotic, demanding. In its wake, fresh air and an early afternoon.
Peace and love, say the rastas. Selam ana fiqir.

a day

2011-10-30T13:49:00.000-07:00

A day in Dar es Salaam last week went wrong and stayed wrong.
In the end, I was happy to survive it.

A boy crossing the street in front of our bajaj was hit by a motorcycle. The boy's kettle went flying, cinders scattering, and he was knocked to the ground, but got up moments later, shaken but okay. The motorcyclist and passenger slowed briefly, then roared away.
Later I saw a lorry overturned in the street, remains still smoking, people standing around staring and disoriented.
A friends' flight was delayed 11 hours, which meant the unraveling of a complicated network of hotel, bus and dinner reservations, flurries of texts, phone calls, internet searches and consultations with frazzled clerks.
A man at the bus station was alternately insulting, nefarious, and thieving; after an hour or so of abuse, one of his co-workers waved us out to the parking lot, consulted with an unknown source, and called a big-wig who solved our problems and promised to sack the thieving boss.
And with that, it was gin o'clock.

sawa sawa sawa

2011-10-24T13:17:00.000-07:00

On a day that saw 40 degrees C (about 104F) and a bus ride across Tanzania, here's today's soundtrack, Nwa Baby:

We heard this catchy joint at Lady JD's Nyumbani Lounge (more on that later), and last night danced to it on the sand and under the stars at Mbalamweze.

bye now

2011-10-19T05:50:00.000-07:00

Killing a few hours at the Dulles airport before my flight to Addis Ababa.
An absent gate agent's phone keeps ringing, Beyonce's tinny voice trilling "All the Single Ladies."
There's wifi, which is nice.
Beyonce again.
I slept fitfully on the red-eye from Seattle. Somebody kept passing ferocious gas.
But, I'm pretty wide awake. I'm thinking the Capitol Grounds decaf probably wasn't.
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Today is the birthday of my oldest niece. Boy, is she old!
This is a mysterious kid, tres fashionable, thrifty, a little hard to read.
All qualities that should come in handy.
Happy birthday Bkres.

whatif

2011-10-16T20:31:00.000-07:00

I'm holding onto some stuff and thinking about it is making me sad.
I feel like I need to let go.
I feel sad about that too. And scared. It's scary to turn loose.
Because, whatif???
Then I think, I've survived some stuff--an AWOL father, losing my mom and grampa, brushes with scary strangers--and I've done stuff, too, I mean dude, I've traveled the world, I've gotten lost in Kowloon, slept in a train station in Paris, jumped off a bridge in Zambia, I've started over and gotten told no and somehow I'm still okay.
So, letting go--yeah I can do it. I can.
I don't wanna.
But I think I have to.
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In happier news, I had another story accepted, to this fine establishment.
Tonight's soundtrack--Thee Satisfaction and OC Notes' "Icing", all of them super coolcats.
&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;lt;a href="http://theesatisfaction.bandcamp.com/track/icing"&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;gt;Icing by THEESatisfaction&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;lt;/a&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;gt;

word

2011-10-14T18:19:00.000-07:00

Something big happened this week, something that's the culmination of a year's worth of writing, recording, pizza, beer, ganja, laughs and out-takes and edits and arguments, computer failures and couch-surfing and many many minutes of staring into the digital abyss.
It was a big occasion and yet it's mostly the turn of a corner, so it felt less big than it might have. At an almost final moment, it hit me. We're here. I hugged my pal and said I love you! So not me. This something changed me fundamentally. I learned. I fumed. I rolled and swooped.
Anyway here's a taste.
More to come.

feliz cumpleaños a BSP

2011-10-10T21:17:00.000-07:00

In a few short hours, BusySmartyPants turns 3.
Born October 11, 2008, it seems BSP is a Libra (schmanx Cafeastrology):

Sociable and intellectual
Has a flair for drama and wants to be noticed for creativity
Prone to over-indulgence and excess
Dreamy, inspired, sensitive, not in touch with reality, spaced out
Has an unhealthy imagination

Tradition dictates the gift of crystal:

something new

2011-10-06T17:50:00.000-07:00

In college I wrote a paper comparing a Goethe poem, "Der Erlkönig," with one of my favorite Willa Cather short stories, "Paul's Case." The professor was skeptical but I sensed a thread tying the two together and I made a convincing-enough case to scoop a decent grade.
That's creativity isn't it? Making fresh connections. Hearing and seeing things in your own way. We all live in our own universes and the best art is a peek across galaxies.
Last night I went to the sold-out Neon Indian show at the Crocodile. The headliner and 2nd opener Com Truise were better than good; my pal and I danced ourselves into exhaustion. But the beats I'm still thinking about were from Purity Ring, a steampunky duo who mystified and thrilled.
They don't have much on line but here's a bootleg video from a show in Cali:

you're in charge

2011-10-01T16:57:00.000-07:00

It can't be coincidence that our culture, which has made it possible to never interact with another human being--cars, ATMs, underground parking, office buildings and drive-thrus and self-check-outs and Redbox and Netflix--this same culture is crazy for social networking. I can't hate on it (although one more FB post about somebody's kid, dinner, life partner or crappy day might just send me over the edge). But, anything that gets people talking's gotta have its beneficial side. We're social creatures, y'all. Listen to the constant chatter around you, in restaurants and bars and coffee shops. Conversation is a valve, a connector, a sanity check, it's that uh-oh moment when you're bitching about something and you see in your friend's face that you've lost touch with reality and you better get your shit together and quick.
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So, that said, listen up people: you're in charge; sometimes you gotta turn off the Facebook, Twitter, Skype, Foursquare, g-chat, and whatever else, and go live your damn lives.
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Some pictures I snapped around town the last few days:

untitled (copout)

you gotta

2011-09-26T20:22:00.000-07:00

Been thinking a lot about creativity and success. The difference between those who struggle and eventually make it, and everybody else.
Lots of people love the idea of being an artist but not a lot of people can do the time.
Here's what I think: you gotta believe in yourself. You gotta put in long lonely hours. You gotta be persistent, stubborn even, you gotta feel pain, find the good people, avoid the haters, and honestly, you gotta be a little crazy.
This NY Times article asks, "what if the secret to success is failure?" Well sheeit, call Oprah and I'll kick off my book tour.
Another one profiles a Russian headmaster who teaches kids that 2+2 doesn't necessarily equal 4. I don't get all the philosophical arguments but I sure do love the idea of challenging the given.
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All righty enough heavy stuff, let's get to the beats: MSTRKRFT y'all.

struck

2011-09-22T23:58:00.000-07:00

What is going on around here? Worlds are flying apart at atomic speeds.
Fisticuffs at a friend's workplace. Health worries and silence and seismic news.
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I've run into six former amours this past week.
One was such a regret that I immediately deleted his message.
Another passed by me on a sidewalk, arm-in-arm with a girl. We smiled hello.
One invited me to a party. Another propositioned me.
The last two asked after my well-being, with uncharacteristic good manners.
And I--well I forge ahead, and if not ahead, I forge on, still confused and sometimes lonely and sometimes not but mostly with hope, that I can be good or good enough and connected.
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Tonight's soundtrack: fresh beats by DJ Limerence

looky what showed up in the mail

2011-09-18T11:28:00.000-07:00

I laughed out loud when I opened my mail the other night, sifted through the usual crap, the Trader Joe's flyers and grocery store ads and bills.
The gift of stickers, yo.
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Today's soundtrack, from the dreamy Nosaj Thing:

flowing

2011-09-14T18:55:00.000-07:00

On a bittersweet Wednesday, peace out DJ Mehdi:

monikers

2011-09-12T18:27:00.000-07:00

On my flight home a couple weeks back, the two money men and I chatted about nicknames. One claimed he'd never had one and never would. He was un-nicknameable.
Not possible! I said, horrified.
I'm proud to have collected a back pocket full of monikers:
Lisi/Greasy Leesie/e-dogg/Lee/Davis!/Sparkette/sleezy E/e
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Nicknames can say a lot; they can be an affectionate shortcut or demonstrate a condensed and concentrated hatred. You don't nickname people you don't care about, either on the plus or minus side of things. (Although, a caveat might be the Geo W. Bush school of nicknaming, which seemed to be a way to mock people, to reduce them to a particular stereotype or force a nonexistent collegiality.)
As with pie dough and romance, you can't force a nickname. They happen, they grow on you, they stick. They remind you of an inside joke. They're a way to acknowledge a moment.
So: Davey Jo and Yula and Wiener Hotline aka Davelicious and Skinny Lynnie and Pops and ThaBoss and Big Spoon and Sparky aka Dancheska and Phatty and Jojo and Billy Boy and T. Wizzy and CL and Local Time and the Frannies and the Goof Troop aka Hammy Smackbooty, Baffank and Jamer and and and--you know who you are. So do I.

max

2011-09-09T21:46:00.000-07:00

You know you're traveling somewhere fun when you need to dig up your passport and your yellow fever certificate, when you need visas and a packing list, emergency contacts, batteries, a Z-pak, a handwritten phrase book.
And passport photos.
I get mine done at a sweaty little copy shop on the Ave. It smells of chemicals and an overheating fan. The smiling dark-eyed clerk, Max, speaks a half-dozen languages, including Russian and Farsi. He always remembers to greet me in German: ah, Elise, es freut mich.
Yesterday he told me all about a Russian cartoon show.
And he took my picture.

confusion

2011-09-09T00:14:00.000-07:00

what a fucked up week.
I've been alternately confused and tired and lonely and angry -- with brief jagged interludes of delight -- and I've thought a lot about that quotation from George Saunders at the top of my blog.
I feel like such a godforsaken outsider--and not the cool kind in skinny jeans and weird hair with ear plugs and face tattoos--but the one mumbling at the bus stop about the spider bite antidote that's turning their skin all splotchy (true story from today bee-tee-dubs), the one you don't make eye contact with or speak to, the one you thank the merciful heavens that you are not.
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if confusion is a state of mind then call me Governor, because it's where I rule.

capitol hill doorway -- see more at Photobucket yo.

weekend beats

2011-09-04T15:26:00.000-07:00

who I'm peeping these days:
*I went fanboy over badasses Shabazz Palaces -- their Bumbershoot set killed -- my girls Stas and Kat sat in and beat-posse OC and Chuck danced in the crowd
**104.rog (music is my) Therapy
***Wesley Holmes' new mix--catch him at Rebar or the Woods cause these beats are not online
**Trombone Shorty!
*and today's soundtrack:

don't mess with

2011-09-01T08:42:00.000-07:00

This has been a trying few days. Maybe trying is the key word here.

Trying to make things happen.
Trying not to lose my shit.
Events were trying. So were people. And the weather.

You have to know when to push, when to push back, when to yield, when to walk away. All delicate maneuvers, and I feel like I’m wearing combat boots on a dance floor.

But there were some supremely lovely moments, too.

I visited a good friend in Texas and it was hot! We played outdoor ping pong and pool, we drank beer and looked at art and went for a late night swim. At a down-home BBQ joint we danced outdoors amongst bubbles and sweat to Gramatik and STS9.

As the weekend waned, I met family I never knew I had and they treated me to a spicy brunch and a cooling jaunt to their lake house.

Then: adios. I’m a mess with good-byes, you know. But you have to have good-bye to have hello.

On a very delayed flight out of Austin, traveling money men regaled me with stories of stolen cars, shaved legs, bubble butts and tumbleweeds.

Now – what’s next?

A quest for a nickname (Local Time and Mike, stay tuned!).

Facing reality. Realistic expectations. Missing my 3B’s.

I am somber, and yet I have a feeling. I have hope. Good things lie yet ahead.

O this guy

2011-08-22T21:59:00.000-07:00

On a somewhat sucky Monday night, peep Seattle DJ Blondzie and feel the goodness return:

SHOWCASE mix Volume 5: BLONDZIE by Showcase_Mixes on Mixcloud

Absolutely Not Safe For Work! Or Young Readers. Everyone else, read on if you will...

2011-08-17T17:45:00.000-07:00

I have a new story out in the August 15 edition of Tawdry Bawdry.
I won't lie, this one is raw. Lots of sex and lying and existential dissatisfaction. As well as vintage Christmas ornaments.
That said, it's a story I really wanted to write, so if you're feeling brave or reckless or even mildly curious, please click and read.
I hope you like.

dusty

2011-08-15T19:15:00.001-07:00

So much to talk about.
I got new ink on Friday, my grampa's nickname on the inside of my arm. The lovely Ash, just back from central America, designed and completed the tattoo. Every time I see my new ink I think about Gramp. I miss him so. If I can be half the champion human being he was...well, I'm going to try.
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I'll have a story link to share soon.
A poet/artist friend got a rather nasty rejection letter last week, larded with pseudo-intellectual MFA jibber jabber. Whatevs. He mixed up a fresh cocktail, heavy on vermouth, named it "too conventional," and we toasted the slush pile.
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I played tetherball this weekend! Yes, I said it. "!"
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Today's soundtrack is Julius Sylvest--don't miss the video, it's trippy cool:

it's okay (not) to smile

2011-08-13T14:30:00.000-07:00

When I was a kid, this man in my father's church would corner me and my sisters, tease up the sides of his lips with his index fingers, and bare his teeth: "Smile, girls, god loves you."
Not much about my childhood made me want to smile.
I grew up home-schooled and religious; I never felt like I could please my parents; I had zits and glasses and crooked teeth.
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In my teens I became addicted to French fashion magazines and Kafka and Goodwill. Smiling was still unnecessary: I had pointy shoes and orange permed hair and a bad attitude. Smiling seemed like an invitation to talk to me and I didn't want people talking to me (see: homeschool) and I really didn't want them looking at me (see: skin + teeth + glasses).
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These days I smile more. Reluctantly. Sometimes purposefully. A smile is so much. An invitation. A flirt. An acknowledgment. Relief. Divertissement. A precursor to a conversation, or a kiss, or punctuation to a goodbye.

yeah!

2011-08-09T18:47:00.000-07:00

Lots of failure in my life, as you know, but finally, a few successes too.
<----- I figured out who this guy is (recall my obsession) and saw some of his work on a random bridge column and at Trabant, in the U-district.
I had a "yes, definitely yes" on a story I submitted to this fine journal.
Still.
I'm one-for-twenty this year with submissions. The recording project is on life support. A blog idea died prematurely.
It's just way too many no's for my taste.
Am I being greedy?
Hell yeah. Oh hell yeah.

kiddos

2011-08-07T17:50:00.000-07:00

Somehow this turned into a kid-centric weekend. And I don't even have kids! Friday night I saw a friend perform in the Seattle Children's Theatre production of Avenue Q. "The Internet is for Porn" didn't make the cut (hehe) but I've never seen the 21+ version of the show so I dunno what I'm missing anyway. The SCT crew did great, and I officially heart Trekkie Monster.
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Saturday I checked out the Rain City Rock Camp performance at Neumo's. At one in the afternoon, both bars were closed and a group of oh-em-gee 11-year-olds made me guess their ages (they guessed mine too, and were merciful).
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Later on, a friend wangled us onto the guest list at the C89.5 listener appreciation party at Neighbors (thanks DJ Scott Binder!). Students from Nathan Hale High School run the station and some of their croaky-voiced compadres were working the door, taking tickets and failing to issue us wristbands. Inside was a sweaty hott mess and we danced until we were exhausted, then repaired to the VIP area to drink and check out the names and the faces, the drag queens and the hangers-on and the nobodies.
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I dare you to not dance to today's soundtrack:

Be on the lookout

2011-08-02T18:31:00.000-07:00

Last week's horoscope included this: You may underestimate the intensity of your longing for continual transformation, but the universe doesn't...You are in line to capitalize on discarded riches and unappreciated assets. Be on the lookout for the treasure hidden in the trash.
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I'm not 100% convinced that the stars have anything to say to me, and I probably won't become a Freegan anytime soon. But it does give my obsession with graffiti and found objects a new context.

Textual relations

2011-07-28T20:21:00.000-07:00

3000 texts.
That was my count for last month, an average of 100 per day.
!
Smart phones have changed the way we all talk to each other and I'm pretty happy about it.
I can have all-day conversations with friends, little snips of chatter--haaaay, how you bb, meetings grrr, brb at the dentist, oh jeezus just ran into P!!!--and sometimes it's not words at all, just a smiley or frowny. It makes me feel connected, like I know the barometer of somebody's hours, their days, their life.
Old people sign their names to texts. They use good grammar and full sentences.
Sometimes I have to urban-dictionary my nieces' texts.
That said, sometimes these brief little digital snips are confusing.
You misunderstand, misinterpret, miss one here and there.
I've been broken up with over text.
One of last year's amours freaked out over a phrase--it was more than the phrase, but the phrase, texted, was the tipping point, and we were done.
These days, if my phone rings, it takes me a minute. I stare at the screen.
Who's calling me? Why didn't they just text?
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Today's soundtrack is Shad, a Kenyan-Canadian charmer who tore it up at last week's block party.

Everyone is a citizen of my world

2011-07-24T10:52:00.000-07:00

At the turn of the millennium, the Washington Post asked readers to summarize their lives in 100 words or less. Read them all (increase the count in the url to move ahead). The truth according to WaPo and a hundred citizens.

Use your pain. It can be a great teacher.
My life, like most people's, has been filled with compromises.
Bigotry and ignorance are defeated one decision at a time.
I represent a forgotten segment of society; I am an inmate in prison. My whole life consisted of other people's opinions and evaluations of me. I fathered two daughters, but I was never a dad. I've never voted. I've never owned a new car. I've never attended a family reunion. I've never attended a wedding as a guest. I attended my brother's funeral in cuffs and chains. I never went to Disney World. I lived a wasted life. I never lived.
I am an atheist…I have hope: I hope I'm not late for my next class; I hope I get home in time for soccer practice; I hope Dad's making spaghetti for dinner.
It is dangerous to have only one dream.
I do not have to worry about the future because this is it.

what i saw

2011-07-19T17:00:00.000-07:00

From the weekend, what I saw...

nothing is

2011-07-16T17:08:00.000-07:00

Nothing is as I expect.
Why is this continually surprising?
Why don't I learn?
It makes no sense.
I want to write "life makes no sense" but who cares about such a sentence?
Such a sentence may be true but it's impersonal, a generality, connected to nothing or no one, the way a blockbuster movie has no relationship to real life or a McDonald's burger is nothing like real food.
*
It's been a week of intensity and disappointment and pleasant discoveries.
I had some late nights. I took naps.
Started a new story and got insightful comments on an old one.
I found out who took my dollar store sunglasses.
I dominated at ping pong.
Friends shared their pain and we raised a glass and managed to laugh.
Rancho Bravo corn on the cob changed my life, at least for a minute.
A friend shared a Pop Tart.
I'm alive, I'm feeling, there's music and gin and a sunny vacation in my future.
Nothing is but nothing should be.
*
Today's soundtrack is old school:

double dutch

2011-07-14T20:17:00.000-07:00

A friend invited me to check out double-dutching at a Seattle park last night.
He brought along his boombox, freshly loaded with jams from De La Soul to Prince to Chromeo, and the jump-ropers (rope-jumpers?) freestyled for hours--hipsters and oldsters and a dog and even a couple of drunk people.
Flatchestedmama posted the video to her Youtube channel.

what am I, what is, do I?

2011-07-12T12:23:00.000-07:00

I have so many questions, still.
What am I doing?
*
What’s the space between stasis and chaos?
I don’t know the answer to this one. I swing between feeling buried and untethered. For writing I need both, and yet most of the time, I feel so afraid.
*
Do I deserve goodness?
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Last night eight-year-old Hammy Smackbooty said, You know, you can’t ever get there. If you get there, then you’re here.
We laughed, but it seemed profound.

June--make that July--graffiti

2011-07-05T19:50:00.000-07:00

Shoot, I meant to post this a week or so ago...as seen around town.

the 785

2011-06-30T22:58:00.000-07:00

Been hanging out in the 785 for a few days. My grandma's turning 90 this year and the fam decided to party. I'm out of my element here--my schedule isn't my own, it's hotter than hell and the music and food and culture are decidedly different--but I'm with sisters and nieces and cousins and aunts and grandma and most importantly, sometimes it's good to be off balance.
Not good--necessary.

206 up and comers

2011-06-27T10:21:00.000-07:00

so much freshness to share:
*new-to-me GMK's "Up Up Down Down Left Left"

*keep up with the hip hop haps in the 206 at Raindrophustla

*and peep this graffiti short by local filmmaker Jesse Lomax

Getting Over from Jesse Lomax on Vimeo.

I keep on trying

2011-06-23T22:47:00.000-07:00

The reality is I haven't gotten a single story accepted yet this year.
Partly because I've sunk dozens of hours into this recording project, which is a slap and a holler away from being born.
Partly because getting a story published is a matter of timing.
And partly because I've lost my focus. I've been distracted and self-destructive.
I'm losing myself again. I know it. Well, now we all know it. It's not a good feeling. And yet I can't seem to find my stride anywhere else.

i am you are

2011-06-20T22:04:00.000-07:00

More graffiti conversations, from August 2010.

paint can conversating

2011-06-19T19:23:00.000-07:00

The graffiti conversation continues around and under the University Bridge.
*
I haven't been posting much. I've been crazy busy, busier than usual, which for me is saying something. I've been taking chances and saying yes more but also sometimes no and not only has the world not ended, it's spun a little faster. More risk means more hurt. I know this. The higher the jump, the harder the landing. And yet, it's worth it, I think. Better pain than regret.
*
The other night I looked at my clock and it was 3 a.m. and I still had shizz to do, not to mention getting myself to work in 6 hours. It's only sleep, I thought. Now can't wait.

Heard around town part--um--well yeah baby it's been awhile

2011-06-12T17:58:00.001-07:00

All y'all wearing headphones are missing out on some prime eavesdropping.
Here's what I been hearing on Metro, down at the corner, and all around:

Well c'est la fucking vie
Now that the swelling's gone down, it's not so bad...
I wanna be the big spoon
Are my teeth as big as my muscles?
Like shoving a marshmallow in a parking meter
I'm an accidental hedonist
Sponsored by: Wong-Doody-Crandall-Wiener (h/t siff)
Shut up and cuddle with me

Now if only I can write what I hear and see.

hbd yula

2011-06-05T14:40:00.000-07:00

Today's my lil sis's birthday.
We've had some crazy times together.
Raiding her piggy bank to stock up on snacks at the corner market.
Baptisms in the red wagon.
Mall bangs and Russian class (zvordy znak) and puppet show misfires ("flo!").
I'm pretty sure she coined the word foofy.
Today at SIFF, Elmo and Kevin sang happy birthday to her.
Now, she's all grows up.

simple

2011-06-02T23:50:00.000-07:00

Keep it simple. Live simply. The simple life.
So go the cliches.
Who can argue with the beauty of simplicity?
But nobody has love for the simple person.
Clueless, we pronounce, after we're done snickering. Out of it. Simple.
$
Me, I want to be simple. To laugh and be silly and light-hearted.
To take pleasure in graffiti birds. To partake in my nieces' goofiness.
To know about the darkness but somehow always find the light.

blok

2011-05-30T15:23:00.000-07:00

Writing has been a struggle lately.
Rejections right and left, terse little cut-and-paste no's. Recording project treading water. Inspiration as foreign as a Swahili dictionary.
Stop trying so hard to make things happen, my shrink says.
Talk about foreign.

cop shop

2011-05-25T20:30:00.000-07:00

This picture is from the Seattle police department's west precinct. I spent five hours riding with a female officer last week. I'm no fan of the cops but I'm no hater either. Like most people, they're doing the best they can with a shit job. Sure, some of them are assholes, but a-holes are everywhere, although most of them don't have the power to lock you up or fuck you up pretty royal. Anyway, it was a fascinating night:

Lots of drunk people, street people, stoned people--sometimes all three at once
As we drove by Westlake looking for an escaped shoplifter, the street kids saw me in the patrol car and started yelling "snitch in the front seat"
I saw a dead guy OD'ed on heroin in Pioneer Square, naked from the waist up, medics frantically trying to bring him back
One time, we slammed through downtown, lights and sirens, down one way streets and through red lights, and it was the bomb
And damn do cops get hit on. A lot. In person, in The Stranger, you name it.

Anyway, thanks SPD. It was coolio. No offense, but I hope our paths never cross again.

I don't want to believe

2011-05-22T14:14:00.000-07:00

I don't believe in true love.
There, I said it.
You know what I'm talking about. Long-term romantic love, a soul-mate--I call bullshit.
What there is is now, connection for today, satisfaction, the oui within je ne sais pas, rolling along like waves or a sandstorm.
You might think I'm cynical. I think I'm living.
$
ps this photo is from the bar at church, two consecutive nights last weekend. I collapsed late Sunday in happy exhaustion.

untitled (copout)

2011-05-17T17:49:00.000-07:00

sparkle

2011-05-14T00:23:00.000-07:00

well I used to think nice people were soft pushovers, suckers.
now I wonder.
maybe the *h*a*r*d*-est thing is being cool when I don't much feel like it.
... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...

Richard "Woody" Johnson

2011-05-09T22:02:00.000-07:00

A sometime reader of this blog told me he thought blogs were masturbatory. By implication I suppose he thinks this one is too.
Well--DUH.
And anyway, what's so bad about masturbation?
$
I love this graffiti from a Washington State Ferry. "Jeff" thinks he's being such a badass, defacing federal property, and then the next guy with a Sharpie takes him straight from badass to dumbass.
You'd think people would have more profound things to say in a public space, but no. We are preoccupied with meaningless details, with dropped pennies and belly button lint. Our universes are comprised of bills and dentist appointments and taking out the recycling. But guess what? The truth is in the details, as every writer knows. Give me "Jeff is a Dick" over Mount Rushmore any ole day of the week.

push it

2011-05-03T20:16:00.000-07:00

I stopped reading last year, gave up on books and the news and Vanity Fair and the New Yorker. Other than the occasional Real Change or spy novel re-run, I pretty much dumped the written word. At some point though I ran across xTx's blog Nothing to Say. She writes like a person punching you in the mouth, and then kissing you. It hurts like hell and then it's amazing. I inhaled her and then I forgot about her until today, and yeah she's still writing like a Fight Club extra.

Try this on from the one where i unexpectedly cry while writing it and then know i hit a part of my truth and it hurts: "My heart constantly yearns for other things. Things I cannot have. I think that’s what continually drives my writing. With my writing I can put that yearning somewhere. I can put all of my stomache aches and my cryings and my what if’s into the imaginary. I can also, in some cases, make people like me. I can sometimes make them love me. I make them all my father."

filthy with metaphor

2011-04-30T13:57:00.000-07:00

Today is my one year divorceaversary. These things mess with your head a little bit.
How to account for the past year?
I've had more fun than I could have imagined. I've felt more deeply, including the kind of soul-searching loneliness I also didn't know was possible.
And guess what, I felt it, and I survived. So that's something.
This graffiti caught my attention. Two different artists, I think. One riffing off the other. Making commentary on a jagged line.
Some things have come full circle already today in a random, unplanned fashion. I heard the same band in the early hours of the morning that was playing the night things changed for me last year. I hung out with three of the same people. Someone gave me a ring that broke, and had to be pried off my finger with needle nose pliers. My middle finger.
The day, so far, has been filthy with metaphor.

hyperbolic fuzz

2011-04-25T21:59:00.000-07:00

down with tumblr, long live picasa (perhaps)

Some days

2011-04-24T14:33:00.000-07:00

Some days, this sums it all up.

perspective--the view--the vista

2011-04-18T21:47:00.000-07:00

When I find myself getting mad, frustrated, sad, angry--I try--I TRY--to challenge my perspective.
The way you look at things is the thing.
Looking at something has a way of changing it, coloring it. The imprint of my eyes, ears, ideas, experiences, biases, desires and disappointments--all this has weight and influence.
#
This picture, well, it's just a leg in purple tights. My leg in purple tights. My leg on a bus seat in purple tights.

ish

2011-04-13T19:05:00.000-07:00

I'm obsessed with this picture, taken in the bathroom at the Caffe Vita on east Pike. I love the shine, the reflection, the oddball ghost.
$
On another note, I know "ish" has been around for awhile. You got all your ish? Ain't that some ish. But suddenly everybody's saying it again. Everybody in my self-selecting circle, that is.
$$
And finally--my mom would have been 63 today. She's been gone seven years now and I still miss her. My sis's and I remember in our own ways, with Yahtzee games and Twizzler/Dr. Pepper snacks and bittersweet chats with grandma.

what's stopping me

2011-04-10T21:30:00.000-07:00

This past weekend forged new seams in my true and creative self.
Friday was a trip across the lake and a bemusing lesson in culture clash, diffidence, guns, fast cars, and sleazy clubs. Not what I had in mind, but ultimately, merci.
Howevah, I also got to chat with longtime favorite solace wonder at bherd gallery, and pick up a wounded heart for a song.
On Saturday I played lackey on a photo shoot for an upcoming album cover, and learned new ways of encouraging lovely, glamorous light. After a shuffleboard/beer break, I brainstormed press release wording with a generous gold-knuckled artist for an upcoming benefit.

Evening brought scrubbing and baseball card chat at another friend's soon-to-be-vacated apartment, and later a birthday party filled with an energetic, sometimes frenetic melange of dancers and old souls. A white-bearded meditator asked me what was stopping me from opening up my heart. I knew. But for a moment, I couldn't speak.

Word

2011-04-08T18:06:00.000-07:00

C'est moi? Hmph.

2011-04-04T19:11:00.000-07:00

I knew about this hot little number.
And now there's also this.
Oh, and then this.

The heavy

2011-04-03T16:40:00.000-07:00

This guy I know asks me all sorts of interesting questions.
If all your friends were in a room together, what would they all say about you? ~ Do you have anyone you can talk to about more than surface things? ~ What are you like in real life?
Incisive questions. Deep. Shrink-like, no?
Well okay, the guy's my shrink. So that part makes sense.
Anyway. It's good to be asked such questions. I think about them long after our appointments.
I don't know what my friends would say about me, honestly. I'm not sure what I'm like in real life, whatever that is. And while there are a lot of silly conversations going on (in a battle between a unicorn and Pegasus, who would win?), there are deep ones, too. What we're doing to improve ourselves. Creative snafus. The fleeting nature of happiness. Religion, alcoholism, the future, cancer, longing.
The stuff of French films and the very best music.

My playlist

2011-03-30T19:00:00.000-07:00

Who and what I've been peeping, of late:

Mash-up kings Girl Talk and Wick-it
Hip hop galore -- I already wrote about the Grouch and Zion I; don't forget about super chill old timers like Digable Planets and Seattle favs Tulsi, THEE Satisfaction and illest-in-town Champagne Champagne
Brainy mixmeister Nosaj Thing
OC Notes' un-douchey remix of the Fresh Espresso "Glamour" album
My homies: DJ Limerence's mesmerizing mixes, and whatever thad wenatchee's spinning on Hollow Earth Radio Sundays at 2pm
Glam disco! Scissor Sisters and Holy Ghost!

What am I missing? Leave a comment and point me to some new beats!

Before, I never understood

2011-03-27T19:57:00.000-07:00

I get some things now, that before, I didn't.
For instance, the power of music. The Grouch/Zion I show at Nectar last night made me extraordinarily happy. I wasn't in the best of moods going in--I was tired from a trip, and cranky about some perceived injustice--and it wasn't just that I hearted the beats, although they were expectedly tight.
There's just something amazing about a sold-out show, a skillful groove, a club packed with (mostly) happy people eagerly singing along and getting their swerve on. I drank cheap beer and crowd-surfed, met a guy just out of jail, a slew of Canadians ecstatic about scoring backstage passes, danced crazily with a wasted friend-of-a-friend.
~
All this and yet--I'm lonely sometimes. A lot of times. I wish for an amour and realize that it's no one's concern but my own. We are all alone, no matter who is with us.
And so, confusion becomes understanding, and beneath flows the same undercurrent as before.

I am the sail

2011-03-25T00:02:00.000-07:00

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A new batch of pictures, courtesy of BusySmartyPants Tumblr.

Through -- thru -- threw

2011-03-21T18:00:00.000-07:00

This picture's from a Ballard pizza joint I'm not crazy about so I won't link to it. I loved how the light came through the glass dividers in the bar.
*
A friend and I talk a lot about the qualities we look for in a guy or girl. My list is pretty short -- I've met a United Nations mishmash of people this past year -- but the ones I'm drawn to are funny, confident, and have style. Boy do I love a pal with style, sass, an urban sensibility, their own way of combining smart kicks and a hoodie, a pink polo with a track jacket, skinny pants with a tuxedo vest and tats. I'm about to head out into the second part of my day -- dinner with a pal, writing, later on drinks -- but first stop is my closet, to undress a little, reclothe, arm myself. In order to disarm.

Tighten the screws

2011-03-18T18:12:00.000-07:00

A friend wrote "tighten the screws" on his work desk.
As in: buckle down. Work harder. Make it happen.
This bit of graffiti reminds me of the same thing.
I've been playing a lot lately. Writing some, but not enough.
Taking pictures, and not doing much with them.
Not taking time to wander the city, to slow down and look around.
Something's scaring me and I want to confront it.
I can jump off a Zambian bridge but I can't confront my own timid mind?
Tighten the screws. Rejoin the universe of friends doing cool creative things.

Lite Brite

2011-03-13T12:59:00.000-07:00

At my friend's painting studio the other night, we beheld magic generated by light and sweat.
Lights out-->beats up-->go.

Good looking out

2011-03-11T15:34:00.000-08:00

Two of my friends are showing art today.
You can see fellow church-goer and super-talented David Jo's bold, vibrant paintings at Source Salon in Ballard (check out the salon site if you're not on FB). Things kick off at 6pm; the show is also a part of the Ballard Art Walk.
And I'm pretty sure my pal cesario is an artistic genius, if you have wheels or any other legal way to get to Lakewood, check out the Veterans Art showcase.
Rock on friends, I'm proud of you both.

One way ticket

2011-03-07T15:52:00.000-08:00

As a kid, I never wore my favorite shoes or read the new Nancy Drew right away because I was scared the fun would be over, that things would wear out or get used up and then what would I do?
I still have that fear. I keep thinking things will slow down, that I'll stop running around so much and staying out til three a.m. and having so much fun.
So far it hasn't really happened.
I scooped up a one-way ticket to crazytown.
I plan less and yeah, sometimes things overlap (an upcoming Sunday is already triple booked with stuff going on ). But now there's room for the last minute dash to happy hour, for happenstance, for wandering, for the kinds of things you can't really plan for.
It's not comfortable. Hell no. But, it's the thing. The only thing.
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(h/t to my pal Clif for the cool pic)

If frogs had Justin Bieber bangs

2011-03-04T21:09:00.000-08:00

A super c00l kid I know turned 17 today.
I'm probably biased but she's going to do amazing things.
Heck, she already aces school, makes money off an internet upcycle business and manages to find time for powder blue hoodies, video games and Johnny Depp movies.
Happy Birthday J!

The keeping of cool

2011-02-28T19:57:00.000-08:00

Keep your cool, I tell myself.
Every day. Every hour. Kila siku.
As though keeping cool is a choice. As though there is cool to keep.
As though cool is tangible, tactile, graspable, keepable.
What I mean is, stay loose.
Touch, don't grab.
Handle--explore--caress--enjoy--and then release.
*
At church last night we had goofy fun with a black light.

FOTB

2011-02-26T14:25:00.000-08:00

Check out my friend's blog.
She snaps pictures here and there at recording sessions.
Click around, visit, snoop, check out her work, stay awhile.
More evidence that we continue, we persevere.

Fresh off the blog.

No means I'm alive

2011-02-22T20:03:00.000-08:00

A lot of no's in 2011 so far.
At least a dozen cold shoulders from literary journals and magazines.
Dear writer: thanks but no thanks, try us another time.
I don't take it personally.
Which isn't to say I like hearing it.
I hate no.
I have to remember that no means, not this time. Not yet. Keep trying.
*
The other no's--one from a boy I fell for last year, plus a sweet new one who's strictly off limits--those no's smart deeper and longer. Some no's you don't recover from so fast. If at all.

Kitchen jams

2011-02-19T13:13:00.000-08:00

Sweet prefunk kitchen freestyling the night of the hott Shabazz Palaces/THEE Satisfaction show -- Seattle's own 3rd Degree (of the Nightcaps), Ms Kelly Castle Scott and thad wenatchee.

Nimefurahi

2011-02-17T19:17:00.000-08:00

Miss you Momash

2011-02-14T18:51:00.000-08:00

We lost my mother 7 years ago today.
My sis, niece and I made our annual trek to the cemetery. It's pretty remote so we had a little trouble finding it. Then, when we finally arrived, we had trouble finding Mom! We walked up and down the rows, careful not to step on any of the stones. Finally I yelled "Mom! Did you move and not tell us?"
We all cracked up. That would have been classic Mom.
We found her, finally, set down some daisies and chocolate covered graham crackers and told stories, how she gave my niece her first diet soda at 8 months, how the former health-food-nut thrived in later years on a diet of cheeseburgers and brownies.
It's still hard to believe, and harder still to find a way to write or talk about it. I'm just glad we had her, and glad my sisters and I have each other.

BSP Tumblr: January nights in the 206

2011-02-12T14:08:00.000-08:00

Keeping up with the BusySmartyPants Media Empire (TM) just got a lot easier.
Look right for feeds from:

BusySmartyPants Tumblr : pictures, sounds, provocations
And the all new BusySmartyPants YouTube channel!

I hope you like.

What is the urge

2011-02-08T19:51:00.000-08:00

This doodled figure on the bathroom door at Hattie's Hat made me wonder, does everyone have the urge to leave behind some kind of mark on the world?
I feel lucky, in a way, knowing (generally) what I want to do. And getting to do it. Yeah sure, the hard part is doing it, but maybe the harder thing would be not knowing what I wanted, feeling a strong yet unresolved urge to do something, but what?
A tagger was sentenced in Shoreline and the commenters passed judgement.
At (In)finity last night (On the Boards), a suit-and-tie oinker got huffy when us waiting list people took the last few empty spaces. How dare the people desire to witness art? It was a good show by the way--sold out, and now, over. I had the chance to chat with the star and his crew at the bar down the street a couple days back and was taken with their wit, shyness and charm.

Balti-mwah

2011-02-06T13:32:00.000-08:00

From my trip a couple weeks back, the cold cushy ride into the city.

Beaver Teeth 4 Ever

2011-02-04T21:51:00.000-08:00

In looking at pictures from last year, I was struck how little I smiled.
I'm not much of a smiler in any case, but back in February 2010 life felt tres grim.
No way I'll claim 100% happiness now either, but I am doing the things I want to do, with the people I want to do them with. Damn, that feels good.
Just looking at this picture makes me feel good too: me + a true sweetheart and partner-in-crime, out on the Hill last weekend getting ready to go to church (and rocking Fever Teeth's custom lids).

Sometimes it needs to be said

2011-02-01T20:27:00.000-08:00

At left witness my niece's commentary on her mom's cranky mood the other week.
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Is it me or is there a bad case of vertigo flying around town? At least four people I know have come down with it recently. Ionospheric disturbance, I was told, by someone who might know. Is this true?
*
I've listened to Fresh Espresso's album "Glamour" about a zillion times.
Peep it, please. Buy it. Join me in my beautiful obsession.

One thing may be another

2011-01-29T15:19:00.000-08:00

I thought I'd write about how not everything is as it seems, about cynicism and lies and jealousy. It's been that kind of a week.
But--why give so much space and energy to negativity?
So instead I'll post this picture I snapped of the backside of the Crocodile the other night, and turn up the music (working my way through this list of local videos). I was lucky enough to see Gran Rapids and SOTA at a show last night, cool Seattle hip hop bands. They rocked, they spat, they killed.

Curry Farts and Snackeroos

2011-01-24T17:46:00.000-08:00

Referential Magazine was kind enough recently to publish my story "Curry Farts and Snackeroos."
If you have a free minute, turn up some beats (. or .), sip a hot toddy and check it out.

Charm City

2011-01-18T19:15:00.000-08:00

Who knew Baltimore would be so much fun? Much of the credit goes to my indefatigable host. We hit the ground running Friday afternoon, leaving a pomegranate hookah, not a few beers, some local rosé, a blond-pompadoured magician-bartender, two VIP bracelets and some visiting soccer coaches in our wake.
I heart the people, the history, the bars (magic + cocktails = :D), the food, the vibe.
Even the Mulberry Street hostel--a ridiculous bargain at $26.10 a night--was more Amelie than Barton Fin k.
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One seasoned resident warned me to stay out of alleys. Dangerous, she pronounced. As soon as I had time on Saturday, I headed right out to find me an alley.

HBD Seester

2011-01-16T09:30:00.000-08:00

It's my sis's birthday today.
She's one of the toughest, most generous, kindest people I know.
And I'm from Kansas, I know a lotta tough people.
Check out her blog. Wish her a happy day.
Try and be tough like her.

Don't lose your nerve

2011-01-14T21:54:00.000-08:00

For today, that is all.
Your nerve.
Mine.
Don't lose it.

Recording sesh

2011-01-11T19:29:00.000-08:00

This has been my landscape recently:
*a pal's in-house recording studio
*six-packs of mid-range beer & Hot Mama's pizza (1/2 cheese, 1/2 pesto)
*scripts flung across the floor
*staring at the carpet, listening to my singular reader work it out
*chill beats: Sir Mix-A-Lot, Limerence, Shabazz Palaces, Fiona
*hey girrrlll--Maaaaa?--Officer Hoedown
It's coming along, finally; order emerging from chaos, sun peeking from clouds, Terminator stepping out of the fog. Soon, you'll get a chance to peep it. Stay tuned.

Heri ya mwaka mpya

2011-01-07T18:48:00.000-08:00

So far 2011 ain't been easy.
I've been working long nights on a cool story project with thad, falling into bed at 2 a.m. and getting up four hours later for all day work meetings.
I started a language class--I'm 101 level and everyone else is 102--and sit there petrified the professor will call on me.
I found out a friend no longer is one.
My boys have been sketchy.
My shrink read a text during our session.
Retrograde Mercury, so I hear.
I wasn't alone in this. It's been a week of high drama and low behavior.
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Existentially, I am alone.
Creatively though, I live among the best of friends.

I am NOT a softy. So. Not. A. Softy.

2011-01-02T15:41:00.000-08:00

I got to hang out with my sister and 8-year-old niece today. Our original plans got scrapped but we winged it, had food and some laughs at the Athinian, goofed around at a 1st Avenue gallery.
When it came time to say goodbye, my niece ran back for a second hug, grabbing me and holding on tight for a minute.
She's a pretty cool customer, so this felt special.
Don't know why. I didn't ask and she didn't say.