Visiting
a place where I lived for thirty years feels strange,
now.
Coming
from the humid Gulf South, Seattle seems so clean, bursting with
greenery and efficiency.
Gas
is five dollars a gallon.
You
don’t have to talk to anyone to do most things like
order coffee or buy a $7.99 dress at the thrift store.
Even
so I
talk to clerks and security guards and homeless people and feel gaudy
and garrulous and slow.
Don’t
ever change,
a co-worker crows. You’ve
always been just
yourself.
You’re
such an eccentric,
a Southern friend comments, looking at my caftan-y dress and
sneakers.
*
My
sisters planned a week’s worth of events but I only made it to
one-point-five-ish.
After
rising
at four a.m., flying for 4.5 hours, jumping
a dead car battery and sitting in hot traffic for hours, we
sat
on a porch politely catching up and
swatting flies off chunks of juicy
watermelon.
We
had an
enjoyable but subdued Fourth, playing bocce with
a restless eight year old, eating
veggie dogs and s’mores, and
lighting
$150 worth of fireworks amid
Gen Z diffidence (“that one was mid”).
Then
a
chaotic brunch,
glorious
hours on a houseboat and wistful
goodbyes.
*
Relief
and regret.
How
I mostly
feel
these
days.